ever hear your coach ask you or someone how old they are, or ask another coach how old is someone?!! it's soo annoying when it's so obvious the coach is using a scale in his head to measure up someone's talent and potential - that's the hidden truth, though it's not so hidden and they do admit to it too. it's like it's not like ur carding for something - it's a sport - look at the person for the talent not the age. one of our coaches is like that so me and my friends just ignore it. good that the other coaches aren't like that in the gym.