"I have to respect the fact she has her own feelings. She was doing the growing up, and now it's my turn to grow up," Valeri Liukin said, laughing. "The very, very good thing that helps me is Nastia's a very smart girl, and she's such a self-driven individual. She understands she's not going to get things done if she doesn't work."[/quote]
Some gyms and coaches don't like it when you do share and are older and also have the knowledge and experience to have the views and aren't shy to share them. Respect both ways is important.